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Sis, He caN’t get it …in help!

Letter:  I’m seeing a 30-year-old man that claims he has had sex before but it just seems he doesn’t have much experience. We’ve tried sex a total of 3-4 times and his penis goes soft before we can get it in my vagina for actual

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Interview: Married after 4-months

Interviewer: Samia Interviewees: *Gabby & Kevin Age: 26 & 28 Why did we interview them? They got married after only 4 months of dating. And it’s been fabulous. SE: How long have you all been together? Married and how long did you date before getting

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Ma’am, Your sex game is wack

We are equal opportunity realists here at Sexual Essentials so it‘s only fair that we also are the voice for men as we come to you and tell you today that ma’am, your sex game is indeed wack. It may seem like all problems are

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New Interview: Cocktales

Check out my interview with Cocktails where we discuss all the juicy topics you’ve been requesting. You know I never hold back. Let me know your thoughts in the comments. And tag any other podcasts you’d like to see me featured on.

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Mr. Pussy Pt IV

Interviewer: Samia B. Interviewee: “Mr. Pussy” Age: 45+ Why did we interview him: He has a different view on sex, specifically oral sex that you probably haven’t heard before. SE: Please explain how this scenario takes place. Mr. P.: Most of the meetings I have

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Mr. Pussy Part III

Interviewer: Samia B. Interviewee: “Mr. Pussy” Age: 45+ Why did we interview him: He has a different view on sex, specifically oral sex that you probably haven’t heard before. SE: Why are you not offended by Black women getting revenge on your face (In reference

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Mr. Pussy Pt II

Interviewer: Samia B. Interviewee: “Mr. Pussy” Age: 45+ Why did we interview him: He has a different view on sex, specifically oral sex that you probably haven’t heard before. SE: What is your fetish? Mr. P: I agree with the eastern Tantric philosophy that there’s

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